A version of this doesn’t exist (yet). It would take me a bit of time and tinkering to create something that would accomplish this. Currently, I’m focusing on other things but that might change in some weeks. Meanwhile, I created a feature request to sort header links by order in backlinks panel which might solve some of your problems, if I understood them correctly.
As a workaround, embedding the verse works well, the only issue is that you have to comb through all of your backlinks to each verse in the chapter:
