I agree with @datum. When I play videos in Obs, it’s the GPU that does the work. I wonder if you have some codec problem or an older computer/gpu or a mix of those. I wonder what happens when you try to play those videos directly in chrome (by opening the files in chrome not through youtube)
No it is native Macbook 12". Fresh clean installation of newest Mac OS Big sur.
I need to stress that video is downloaded from youtube, not playing it thru iFrame.