I personally have mine auto-update whenever I change active files.
This powers a “Projects” base where I have a TLDR for scope, and pulls all my “IN_PROGRESS” tasks to the “next” property, and an “image” property I use for card-based views. Now all 3 of those things just work with how I was already managing my projects.
It rocks. It actually made me finally understand the concept of “next actions”. David Allen would be, well not proud, but I guess pleased that I finally saw the light.
Say I have a template for a person, having properties : parents, children.
I would like to link the parents and children. If I create a note for “Father”, and link children property to, say “Son” and “Daughter” notes, can I make both “Son” and “Daughter” notes’ parents property to pull “Father” as link, rather than in backlinks?
I would expect this update to happen in all notes at point of edit in the source note.
Unfortunately, no. While I can sympathize with this as a use case, it’s clearly something that could be super useful. I don’t think I can take on this use case, though. Implementing this would be a huge expansion in the code base. I fear it would 10x the code - handling the UI for setting up the cross-linking, doing a scan of other files in the vault to handle updating the property value, and handling potential circular update logic… those are just the immediate things I’d have to handle that I can think of.
I’m sorry this won’t help find what you’re looking for. You might keep looking around though, I feel like I’ve seen a plugin that is meant to help with these sorts of relationships before.