I’d write notes to myself when I change something in one and not yet the other. For notes like that I ==highlight== the text the note applies to and put a %%comment%% (or more widely compatibly, a <!--comment-->) immediately after (==highlight==%%comment%%). I have a (not totally elegant) way to list all the highlights.
I know of another person who uses task lists for their writing notes.
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